OMG, you are still a virgin?

Girls talk. Have you ever wonder what would a bunch of girls talk about in a coffee house?

Nothing surprising actually. Just like boys talk - girl and sex. Football perhaps, during the league season. Some nerdy one will talk about books and scientific term that you and I will never understand.

Majority, sex.

Sherry and I were sipping our tea (we are not a coffee person) at a cafe along the river. It has been months that we didn't see each other. It is normal for people at our age, where job and family are placed before friends. Lucky (or unlucky) for us, we don't have our own family yet. The job itself is keeping us occupied enough.

"Remember how we used to hang out everyday in school? I can't believe that now we have to actually make an appointment for girl's day out 2 weeks beforehand. This is ridiculous!" That's just typical Sherry. Same complaint every time we meet each other.

We were classmate in primary school. Since then, we have been best friend. We went to the same secondary school, same high school, and even same university. We know literally everything about each other, including our bra size.

"So, any updates?" I skip the whole redundant 'how's life' process and shoot into the main point.

"Not really. New boyfriend. Hot, good on bed, my type. So that's really nothing new." I agree. It would be a news if she has a same guy for months.

"How about you? Still the same boring guy?" Sherry asks while winking at a hot guy next table. Sometimes I wonder if she really want to meet me or she is just finding a new way to meet new guy.

"Hei, don't be mean. He is not boring. He is just .... less interesting than yours. BUT, it doesn't mean that he is a boring guy. He is still interesting in some way." I defend for David intuitively.

"Oh really? Have you guys have sex? You know I have been waiting for this good news since last year." Sherry can't bother to put things into nice word. That's how I like her, straight-forward. No twist and turn.

I have been with David for more than a year, without any sex. While Sherry merry-go-round with different guys, I am still with David. Compared to Sherry, I am a much conservative girl that believe sex=marriage philosophy. Sherry lost her virginity to her high school sweetheart while I am saving my last line for my future husband. I don't agree with what she does and she doesn't agree with what I do. However, sometimes I do feel jealous with her happy sex life because I look like an old-maid in front of her.

"No....not yet. I just need more time." I answer with my head looking down.

"OMG, you are still a virgin? Seriously, is David a normal guy? How could you two living under the same roof without any spicy action? You betta test him out before you two get married. By any chance if his 'little-bro' is not working well, there goes the rest of your happiness. " Sherry cares for my happiness in such way.

"Of course he is a normal guy. I can feel his little-bro up rising when we were cuddling. It's just that I am not ready for the next step. He respects my decision..." I don't want David to look like a loser. Or worse, me like a loser.

"What are you not ready then? You are no longer an underage. What are you afraid of? Your parents to find out? Please, they are far away in the States, there is no way they can find out unless you confess to them. You wouldn't do such stupid thing, right?" Sherry eagers to have me join her league. Not the merry-go-round type.

"Ok, I will make myself ready as soon as possible! I just need few more time to convince myself, alright?" Finally, I bow to her.

For the rest of the tea session, we enjoy ourselves with gossips and bitching about our boss. This is better than retail or spa therapy to keep ourselves away from work pressure.

However, my mind keep lingering about Sherry's suggestion : test him out.

Should I?

(to be cont.)